Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to confront the “professionals” in real time due to pure shock and disappointment. And given the terrible attitudes, I know that confrontation would not be of any help, so I am leaving a written message for public view.
A month ago, I came to Korea with unidentified stomach pain, and after a few visits at multiple hospitals, one doctor suggested visiting an OBGYN given my PCOS history. So I came here with my mother, who was worried and wanted to gain a second opinion. We came with my CT, and I even prepared my ultrasound images from the States. Apparently, this hospital and Dr. Shim stated that they need new testing/imaging PRIOR to seeing the Doctor??? Shouldn’t it be the opposite? After cross checking with the Gang-seo district and medical law, this practice of testing prior to seeing the doctor is illegal. (And of course when calling the hospital, they simply stated that it was “miscommunication” and that WE did not understand them… LOL).
My mother and I refused to have testing because we were uncomfortable with this method of practice at that moment, which then raised a bit of negative attitude from both the nurse, front desk, and Dr Shim.
When my mother presented my situation, Dr Shim so simply and stoically responded “What’s the need to go to so many hospitals, just take your medicine. There’s nothing else.”
I am MORE THAN AWARE of my condition and that there is limited research in the field, however your lack of empathy and rude statement to my mother was simply uncalled for and incredibly UNPROFESSIONAL.
I walked out with a variety of emotions - I felt belittled, ashamed, and invigorated at the way she talked to my mother. And I eventually cried afterwards, to which the nurse and front desk laughed at and whispered to one another “what’s the big deal”.
To Dr. Shim, I want to ask why you decided to become a doctor. Was it because you surpassed your peers in grades? Was it for the pride? Was it for money? Was it for authority? One thing for certain is that you did not choose this career to help patients. Of course, doctors should treat and diagnose, however they should also have a sense of empathy and a willingness to help patients… which you immensely lack. Do you have children? Even if you don’t, imagine the heart of a mother. She is worried. She is also more than knowledgeable about the condition, we just wanted a second opinion but I guess that was too much to ask for!
I never leave public reviews, however my experience was something I wish no other patients have, and I hope somehow Dr Shim and “professionals” of MizMedi have an opportunity to recognize this review.